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Laid In China

一个简单指南帮男生在中国撩妹

A Simple Guide on How to "Pickup" Chinese Girls In China

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What Laid In China Is Not:

  • Laid In China isn’t a guide in which sex is the only goal. NO.

  • If you just want to come to China just for a bang, forget about it.

  • The time spent watching this guide and for the money you pay, you could just get a prostitute in your home city.

  • In this guide you will improve yourself to be a man who is culturally aware.

  • You will play to your strengths and understand your weaknesses.
  • You will be prepared for any possible situations and problems when meeting Chinese girls.

  • This guide is about adventure, overcoming challenges and self-improvement.

  • Sex with stunning Chinese women is just the cherry-on-top.

  • Laid In China isn’t a website on how to trick or manipulate girls into sex. NO.

  • In this guide I will show you how to be the man that Chinese girls WANT to be with, and what these women will and won’t respond to.

Laid In China Helps You to Overcome... The Language Barrier

  • Maybe you are a loser back home, or perhaps you are a stud with the ladies, but when it comes to the language barrier…neither matters.

  • Both guys are going to be faced with an equally massive challenge and the one with the better grasp of the Chinese language will win.

  • If you cannot communicate with a girl; how will you build enough attraction and comfort for her to like you or go on a date with you?

  • Perhaps you can use translator apps and body language, but is this going to get her to stop her in her tracks and for how long will you be able to keep up this interaction?
  • The Laid In China guide includes a language breakdown on the essential Chinese sentences that you will need for socialising with local people.

  • The website also includes phrases recorded by a local speaker, to be used for building attraction and comfort building when meeting girls.

  • These sentences that cannot be correctly translated on translation apps, without the knowledge of a local.  (COMING SOON)

Overcome The Culture Differences

  • Despite internally all girls around the world being the same:

  • Culture is what will make people respond in different ways to you, and Chinese culture couldn’t be anything more different from the west.

  • A girl responding to you by giggling may actually be a sign of discomfort.

  • Most Chinese girls will give you their Wechat (contact details) when asked won’t often say no, because they want to avoid any embarrassment for you or for her.

  • When you go to message her, you might find that she has already deleted your friend request.

  • Due to the culture, Chinese people are very very cold to strangers.
  • I am not joking when I say this: If someone was dying in the street begging for help, it is likely that not a single person would step in to help.

  • Talking to another stranger is so uncommon that she will feel uncomfortable and automatically think you are a scammer.

  • I will teach you how to avoid her reacting like this.

  • Chinese culture is much more conservative than the west when it comes to sex.

  • In this website however, I will include infield breakdowns on how act in a way in which she will allow you to take her home with you and make love to her the same day you met her.

  • It doesn’t matter if the encounter was in a club or the street.

Essential Travel Advice

  • I will provide you useful travel advice on which websites and apps are blocked in China.

  • For example, do you know that the dating APP Tinder can’t be used?

  • I will inform you of the Chinese alternative to Tinder which is actually more fun and gets better results.

  • I will also provide a detailed process on how to install all necessary APPS on the Chinese version of Google Play Store as that is also censored.

  • I will talk about the scams you will face when trying to pickup girls.

  • THAT’S RIGHT – GIRLS WILL TRY TO SCAM YOU.

  • And how other scammers will influence how people respond to you in certain situations.

Final Note:

  • When you are an old man and you start reflecting on your life – what memories do you think you will be most fond of and what would you regret would you have?

  • Memories of challenge, adventure, new experiences would be the most beautiful right?

  • Would you regret not making the most of the resources that were available to you when trying to overcome those challenges?

  • Would you regret not being able to undertake certain adventures because you weren’t prepared?

  • Would you regret realising that you had missed out on certain new experiences because you didn’t have the tools encounter them?
  • If you are willing to make those first steps and invest in yourself, then let your journey begin HERE today!  RIGHT NOW!

  • Start building momentum for your trip so that when the time comes and you are faced with meeting a stunning Chinese girl – you know what to do!

  • You won’t just let her walk past you.

  • When the day of your trip comes, you will be able to hit the ground running rather than constantly playing catch-up.

  • As soon as you step off the plane you will be more than ready to get Laid In China.

Your adventure begins today  – James Charles 李杰

What Laid In China Membership Includes:

  • Access to all videos within the site including the “member videos” and the “free videos”:
  • Best Dating Apps And Survival Apps You Need For China
  • How to Pull Girls From the Club to Your Home
  • 3 Obstacles You Must Overcome To Meet Chinese Girls During The Daytime In China
  • Letting girls chase you – Online game
  • A Classic Scam on Dating APPs – The Tea house Scam
  • Interview with Chinese Dating Coaches – What Problems Do Local Guys Have With Girls?
  • Taking a cute Chinese girl from the street to my home the sameday – full breakdown (Free)
  • Breakdown of a Failed Approach in China (Free)

One time payment only (no recurring fees)

在这个网站视频教你怎么搭讪女生在很多不一样的地方比如:街路,酒吧和约会APP

Through videos, this website teaches you how to meet Chinese girls in a wide range of situations including: the street, bars and clubs, and dating APPS

daygame china three problems obstacles with chinese girls

Daygame 街搭讪

How to meet girls during the daytime in a way which isn't going to scare them. Including infield on how to pull a girl from the street to your home in the same day.

Clubs and Bars 在酒吧和夜店把妹

Chinese clubs are different to western one: a large amount of people site down in segregated seating areas of the clubs. I will talk about how to use this to your advantage when meeting girls here. This includes methods on how to get into the top clubs in China - knowing the right people 关系

Online dating advice chinese girls

Online Game 约会APP

What dating APPs you must have in China, including Tantan 探探 and Momo 陌陌. Guidance on how to find and install them onto your phone. Various western APPS and websites are blocked in China, so I guide you through how to install this on the Chinese version of these which are just as good.

Laid In China is packed with infield: Success and failures

Pulling a girl from the street to my home the same day

Breakdown of a brutal rejection: Why I failed

My Story - Why I made Laid In China

 
 

 

  • During university I accident realised that I had a slight preference for dating Asian girls.

  • One night I was working late at the campus library, when I noticed that there were only a few people left.

  • Sitting directly next to me was an oriental girl wearing a really interesting jacket and was kind of cute so I started to feel an urge that I wanted to talk to her.

  • At the time I been interested in the “pickup community” for a while, so I would often actively try to meet women.

  • At the time I didn’t have any experience approaching Chinese girls however.
  • I decided to ask her “what are you working on?” and little did I know; months later, after an awkward and frustrating dating period she became my girlfriend.  Her name was Apple.
  • We dated for a while until it was time for Apple to graduate and go back to China, resulting in us breaking up.
  • Through her, I started to realise that I had a preference for Asian girls over western girls; however I found there were some challenges dating her:
  1. We had to go through the whole dating process of becoming boyfriend and girlfriend rather than a quick hook-up.
    • It took a long time to build comfort with her by text to get her on a date and then an even greater number of dates before we had sex
    • Chinese girls don’t often go clubbing or to bars, so trying to be sexual on dates would be harder. Meeting them in clubs was too rare to get any one night stands
  1. She was a lot more conservative when it came to public displays of affection.

    Unless you are confirmed boyfriend and girlfriend – Chinese people do not hug eachother in public (as I’ve learnt from very awkward experiences). 

  1. Despite her being a student in the UK, there was still a language barrier and cultural differences:
  • This made it hard to build comfort and form a emotional connection (this is harder to do if you struggle to communicate about deep topics with eachother).
  • Around the time we broke up I also started getting interested in a Youtuber called “David Bond” and a writer named Roosh V.

  • Both of whom documented their interesting lifestyles of travelling and meeting women, which I found very appealing to me and motivating.

  • Out of interest in Chinese culture, learning the language and meeting girls, I decided to make it my goal to prepare my own epic trip around China in the future.

  • That summer vacation I worked hard learning Chinese, planning and making money for the trip.
  • When I came back to college after summer break, I went on a rampage of developing my skills in meeting women.

  • I would put most of my focus on Chinese girls, again in preparation for my coming adventure.

  • I would regularly practice approaching girls on the street, social activities, clubs and bars.

  • I would watch videos online providing information on picking up girls and self-improvement.

  • I would write down and record my own progress to try and analyse what mistakes I was making and understand why I got the occasional successes that I did.

  • I even paid a dating coach (Joe Spark) in London to guide me on how to pickup girl during the daytime and in bars/ clubs.
  • Eventually the time for my trip around China arrived, and was probably one of the best and most rewarding experiences of my life.

  • Although, I got scammed and rejected multiple times, but the whole time I was consistently learning.

  • After 3 months or so I started to get the hang of getting laid in China.

  • In reference to my time dating Apple and trying to pick up other Chinese girls in the UK, meeting girls in China was slightly different however.

  • Of course there was a greater language barrier and the people are even more conservative but there some additional unexpected issues:

I Noticed:

  • conventional ways of interacting with girls were different: tinder, facebook and ig were all blocked, on top of that, nobody used whatsapp.

  • you are viewed as an outsider: people stare at you and sometimes come over and listen to you whilst trying to pickup a girl on the street.

  • This can very very easily be off-putting.

  • People are much more callous to strangers.  You might to say hello, but she might act as if you don’t even exist – the rejections were more brutal.

  • I believe this coldness to strangers also resulted in an abundance of scammers – i.e. people just looking out for themselves and their own/ friends and family whilst not caring about anybody else.

  • Because of the association of strangers with scammers, girls were even more cautious about being stopped in the street.
  • Since then two years have passed and I have been; and I am continuing to live a happy life in Chongqing (a large city in the west of China).

  • All the while I had been continuing the document and compile all of my knowledge and painful lessons learned in meeting Chinese girls – the result is the guide “Laid In China”.

  • I made this with the hope that it can serve other guys to avoiding making the same mistakes that I made, and therefore save time, energy, frustration and money.
  • I also wanted to add general travel advice for China based on my time and experiences which others may find useful, and prevent falling into any pitfalls during your trip.
  • Here is a compilation all of the information I learnt about seducing Chinese girls from my time in the UK and in China into a guide to helping other men who are interesting in meeting such type of women.
  • James Charles 小明

What Laid In China Membership Includes:

  • Access to all videos within the site including the “member videos” and the “free videos”:
  • Best Dating Apps And Survival Apps You Need For China
  • How to Pull Girls From the Club to Your Home
  • 3 Obstacles You Must Overcome To Meet Chinese Girls During The Daytime In China
  • Letting girls chase you – Online game
  • A Classic Scam on Dating APPs – The Tea house Scam
  • Interview with Chinese Dating Coaches – What Problems Do Local Guys Have With Girls?
  • Taking a cute Chinese girl from the street to my home the sameday – full breakdown (Free)
  • Breakdown of a Failed Approach in China (Free)

One time payment only (no recurring fees)

Remember that women are not objects, they are people. Aiming to have make love to as many girls as possible will not make you happier in life. Overcoming personal challenges, self-improvement and learning to love yourself will bring you long lasting happiness. Please respect local laws and customs. Remember that you are a guest in that country so act accordingly. If a girl does not like you, please leave her alone. Lead, but always seek her permission when escalating. If she says "no" or "stop", back off immediately.